Tom, I have read both of your posts and I am sorry for what you have been through. I am also sorry that being female I represent a population of selfish, self centered people. This entire situation when viewed as a whole is very sad and discouraging. You dudes think you are hot stuff, but young women don’t want anything to do with you when they can find a hot man their own age. Notice that that you are the only women commenting.

I supported his efforts to want to make a better life for us. Once he became successful I was booted out of his life. My late father once told me that if a man reaches age 65 and can count 5 GOOD friends, he will have done well. Not mere acquaintances, but good friends who are there for you in time of need and vice-versa. Us fellas are not that good at it once we leave college.

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His view on spirituality and mine didn’t gel, but I accepted him wholeheartedly regardless. For once in my life I have been discriminated against, from a man who has suffered discrimination himself. Where is the compassion and understanding?

He wanted out and I wanted to work it out. I was 26 the second time around and that relationship lasted 19 years, 16 years married. He wanted out because I was not good enough for him after he got two Masters degrees. I was fine for him when he was poor though.

You can be prime real estate in front of their nose and guys just don’t care. I am the best he’d ever hope to have in his life, him being a recovering drug addict with a heart ready to give out. Maybe I’m the foolish one for giving a human being who had a hard life a chance for something good.

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Every woman that I have dated since 2007 all said the same thing. “I can’t believe you are still single”. But they have all been cut from the same cloth. Total sweethearts until they think they have me locked in. I tell them upfront that I want a love life and I want to be treated how they want to be treated. I’m fully functional and I believe I’m a very generous lover.

Good people pay the price for the bad things that others do or say. All I can say Tom is to protect yourself. Don’t give yourself away all at once. Give any relationship a good deal of time to grow and develop, and pace yourself with the finances. You don’t have to get married again either.

I am attractive and look young for my age. I’m smart, funny, down to earth, loyal, and affectionate. I don’t care what a man does for work or what car he drives. I can’t figure out what more a guy could want in a woman. I can only hope to find a nice partner the old fashioned way, but so far it hasn’t been easy.

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Based on that feedback I invested a few hundred dollars and enrolled in MeetMindful, OKCupid and Bumble. I tried the age-appropriate SilverSingles briefly, but felt it attracted too conservative a population. I rejected Match this go-round for fear Mike would see me on it.

“He wanted to provide for her, but he was unwilling to take on the risk of covering medical costs,” says Ms. Krooks. Whether or not they sign documents, many older couples remain single because of financial issues. Potential medical burdens pose a special problem, says Howard S. Krooks, president of the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys.

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And on the other hand, it does not feel real, even to us. Age, we know, is nothing but a number. Things begin to happen to us that make the number real. We begin to be aware that life is slipping between our fingers, like the oil of fine olives, smoothly and steadily, smoothly and regularly, smoothly but inevitably. I can sense your lonliness but I must tell you that I was hoping to find someone closer to my age. You sound like a very nice person and I truly hope that you find someone in your quest to overcome your lonliness.

Men really do want to make women happy. I don’t mean that the amount the date costs is so important, though that’s something to keep in mind. What I mean is that after 30, people are concerned not only about their own money, but the general financial situation and responsibility of potential partners.

There is nothing wrong with looking for the best but with age the odds are getting drastically smaller for you. In this age group, I see way more overweight women than men and this is very unattractive. When middle age woman is not overweight, that’s attractive already, fit or not fit, and it shows on pictures. I have normal body, for a 53 it’s a bit heavier of course, sometimes I get very fit when I prepare for a marathon, but in general it doesn’t change my perspective on women. I’m just not attracted to women whose bodies don’t resemble a woman’s body anymore. Most or maybe all who chat me up look like guys, seriously.

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